How It Started:
Joyce and Barry Vissell started out in the field of medicine. Barry received his MD from the University of Southern California in Los Angeles in 1972. Joyce added her MS in child psychology from the same university to her previously earned BS and RN from Columbia University in New York City. Her main preceptor (and an influential teacher for them both) during her graduate work was Leo Buscaglia, who later became a close friend and contributor to their second book.
The couple then moved to Portland, Oregon, where Barry trained in psychiatry at the University of Oregon, and Joyce taught pediatric and psychiatric residents the subtleties of play therapy. Unsatisfied with the rigidity of traditional psychiatry, the Vissells undertook an intensive exploration of holistic and alternative disciplines, as well as a spiritual pilgrimage that led them half-way around the world and into meaningful training with teachers and leaders of the East and West.
The Vision:
In 1973, in an alpine meadow in the French Alps looking across Chamonix to Mont Blanc, Barry and Joyce Vissell had an experience that changed their lives. As teachers at a summer camp, they explored and pioneered a new method of healing by combining spiritual and psychotherapeutic individual and group work. They saw the transformational power in this combined work to change people’s lives. By the end of that summer they knew their lives would be dedicated to helping individuals, couples and families to open their hearts through this powerful combination.
The Foundation:
In 1984, the Vissells found a board of directors who understood and were dedicated to their vision, and created The Shared Heart Foundation, a California nonprofit educational 501c3 corporation.
Our Purpose:
Our purpose is education and the healing of individuals, couples, teens and families. We take our slogan seriously: “Changing the world one heart at a time.” Each person who is helped by our counseling services, books, or workshops goes on to make a difference in many others’ lives.
- The Shared Heart Foundation provides counseling, workshops, retreats and training programs around the world. These programs are for individuals, including men’s and women’s retreats, and couples. One summer program, started in 1986, is a retreat for individuals, couples, and families, with teens and children of all ages. An inspired and experienced team of teachers work with each age group.
- The Shared Heart Foundation provides scholarships to those who would not otherwise be able to get the help they need.
- The Shared Heart Foundation offers a free monthly inspiring article by email. Hundreds of past articles, archived on this website, offer help with relationships and personal growth.
- The Shared Heart Foundation offers a free weekly 10-15 minute inspirational video
- The Shared Heart Foundation provides books free of charge to prisons and other institutions.
The Shared Heart Home Center
The Shared Heart Home Center sits on a 16-acre ridgetop with a peek at the Monterey Bay.
The main house has a large meeting room (we call it the living womb).
Accomodations:
There are 2 private rooms available for retreat participants, with public bathrooms nearby:

Madrone Room: queen bed, public bathroom outside door

Maple Room: queen bed, public bathroom requires 20 foot walk outside to main house. This room is more private.
Facilities:
Hot tub, sauna, 60 foot lap pool (May-September), hiking trails



Founders:
Joyce Vissell, RN, MS
Barry Vissell, MD
Board of Directors
United States:
Barry Vissell, MD
Joyce Vissell, RN, MS
Steve Soskin, MA
James Lipson
Rebecca Lipson
Berneva Adams, MD
Bobbi Spurr, ND, PA-C
Robert Gitlin, D.O.
Karla Gitlin, D.O.
Diana Cunningham, NMD, ND, MA
Michael Murphy, CFA
Germany:
Evelyn Horsch-Ihle
Peter Ihle
Norway:
Hermod Nordby-Hansen
Renate Nordby-Hansen
Denmark:
Isabella Beckman
Kim Beckman
What People Say about the Vissell’s Work:
“I can’t think of anything more important to the healing of our society than a connection between spirituality, relationship and parenthood. Bravo to the Vissells for helping us find the way.” —MARIANNE WILLIAMSON, author of A Return To Love and A Woman’s Worth
“Barry and Joyce plough through the hard and soft spaces of the journey with great inner strength and deep respect for reflective inner tuning.” —RAM DASS
“I always sleep easier knowing that there are such caring, loving, and sensitive people doing what they can to make this world better for all of us. Joyce and Barry, we are all more for your efforts.” —LEO BUSCAGLIA
“For decades now, Barry and Joyce Vissell have been helping individuals, couples and families to live their highest possibilities. The integrity of their message has such healing power because they are examples of what they teach.” —JOHN ROBBINS, author of Diet For a New America and May All Be Fed
“My work in international conflict resolution has taught me that peace is not made between nations or cultures. Peace is only made between individuals. Barry and Joyce are working effectively at the core of this true peacemaking — within the heart of person to person understanding. They are the real peacemakers.” —DANAAN PARRY, Earthstewards Network, author of Warriors of the Heart, and father of American Citizen Diplomacy.
“I convey my best wishes to you both for the important work you are doing.” —AL GORE
“The Vissell’s work will bless your whole life.” —JOHN BRADSHAW, author of Healing the Shame That Binds You
“It is so refreshing to see a wife and husband team writing books and teaching workshops on relationship as a deeply united and committed couple. Their work goes straight to the heart.” —GENEEN ROTH, author of When Food Is Love
I honor Joyce and Barry Vissell as two of the most genuine, heart-centered teachers of love and relationship. They have been my models of loving relationship for many years. —ALAN COHEN, author of The Dragon Doesn’t Live Here Anymore and I Had It All The Time
“First the One became the many. Now the many are uniting back into the One by the miracle of love. Barry and Joyce show how the human relationship is the first step.” —PIR VILAYAT KHAN, head of the Sufi Order of America
“We love to immerse ourselves in any book written by Joyce and Barry. They offer the priceless gift of their own experience with relationship, commitment, vulnerability, sorrow and loss, along with the profound guide to healing that comes from the core of their being and blesses us with gentle wisdom.” —GAYLE AND HUGH PRATHER, authors of Notes To Myself and Notes To Each Other
“When people ask me where they can learn more about how to love, I always say without hesitation: the Vissell’s workshops.” —TOLLY BURKAN, author and founder of the Firewalking Movement in the U.S.
“Joyce and Barry have created a nurturing experience which allowed both our fears and our dreams to surface, moving us beyond the impasses in our relating together.” —LESLIE AND MICHAEL TIERRA, authors of The Way of Herbs
“Barry and Joyce Vissell are an example of the commitment about which they write.” —RESHAD FEILD, author of The Last Barrier, The Invisible Way and Steps To Freedom
“Joyce and Barry are able to inspire a rare level of trust, empathy and bonding within their groups. People feel so at home in their presence that they let go of their barriers. I was amazed at the healing atmosphere present in the room.” —NEW TIMES
“Barry and Joyce’s workshops are intense, passionate, tender and loving journeys into the depth of one’s being. They are extraordinary opportunities for growth.” —AEGIS INSTITUTE, NEW YORK
“Barry and Joyce show how a partnership can be based on seeking the divinity of life together and that such a union can really last.” —DRS. JUDYTH REICHENBERG-ULLMAN AND ROBERT ULLMAN, authors of The Patient Guide to Homeopathy
“From the perspectives of romance, marriage, making love, parenting, careers, spiritual initiation, and loss of a loved one, this remarkable couple exhibits insight, acceptance and transcendence, at the same time offering specific tools for the transformational process of love.” —YOGA JOURNAL
“The Shared Heart is an extremely accessible, warm and wise book that blends good personal, practical experiences with observations of life that will speak to a wide audience.” —LESLIE MEREDITH, SENIOR EDITOR, BANTAM DOUBLEDAY DELL
“The Shared Heart is a beautifully written book about the journey of committed relationship. It is joyful and moving, an experience to be savored.” —The Common Boundary
“Joyce and Barry have managed to translate heart essence into the written word a very rare occurrence indeed. Reading their books, we experience cover-to-cover laughter, tears of joy, and much wisdom.” —Rico and Jeannine Parvati Baker, authors of Hygeia, Prenatal Yoga, and Conscious Conception